CHOOSE THE POWER OF THE "AND"
A man had a job interview where the interviewer said that life is about choices and one choice he had to make was whether to have a great career OR a great marriage. He said he chose his career. He is also divorced.
The man agreed that life was about choices and his choice was to have a fulfilling career AND a great marriage. Needless to say, the man was not interested in the job since the interviewer would have been his boss.
In Jerry Porras and Jim Collins' book, Built to Last, the authors refer to the tyranny of the "OR" and the genius of the "AND" when referring to habits of companies that delivered superior results over a sustainable period. The main theme for these high performing companies was the ability to preserve their core philosophy AND stimulate progress. It was never about trade-offs or concessions but about the desire and discipline to achieve both.
We have choices every day in life and many times we see people and organizations limit their options and potential by choosing OR instead of AND when making decisions. Why?
Because the OR is easier!
The AND requires both desire and discipline. If you have both, then the results are much more rewarding!
We challenge you and your organization to build the power of the "AND" into all of your decision making processes. You have too much potential to settle for anything less!
You can:
have a fulfilling career AND a great marriage
care for your employees AND hold them accountable for their actions
enjoy your work AND make a lot of money
love your children AND let them learn life's lessons
stimulate conflict AND build consensus
be creative AND disciplined
have fun AND deliver results
be confident AND humble
be caring AND direct
make money AND be a great corporate citizen
be serious AND interesting
be silly AND smart
satisfy customers AND make great margins
be ethical AND successful
be virtual AND productive
simple AND thought provoking
challenge the status quo AND be constructive
give products/services away AND make money
be low cost AND high quality
These are just a few that come to mind. Please share your personal favorites in the comment section and do an exercise with your team to find other βANDβ statements that resonate with your team. Let's share the power of the "AND" with others and see what amazing things happen!